1221: Nothing in nature blooms all year round
Today we’re doubling down on yesterday’s message on not expecting ourself to finish the year strong.
Episode transcript:
Good morning, Daily Peppers, and a very happy Tuesday to you. So one of the quotes that I love to share the most around here is that one where it says, nothing in nature blooms all year round, so don't expect yourself to either. And it's one that I come back to time and time again because, my goodness, we are so good at piling the pressure on and always expecting ourselves to be doing new things and thriving and working hard. And we can easily forget that that isn't our normal default mode. We cannot expect ourselves to be on 100% of the time. So I share that today as a reminder. If you are feeling fresh out of fucks for the rest of the year, you're feeling really tired, or you wish you could just hibernate. Now I know we don't have that option, but we do have the option not to do it all.
It is only natural to get to this part of the year and feel pretty fucking exhausted. I think we'd all agree that it has been a year. And when you take a big picture view of everything that's happened this year, it's no surprise that we're exhausted, yet we can give ourselves such a hard time about it. So my question for you today is this. What if you made peace with the fact that you've done all the big things this year and that the rest of this year is for coasting and doing what you have to do. In yesterday's episode, I shared that fabulous Jane Carrington quote about not having to end the year strong. And I know today, I'm essentially just double downing on what I said yesterday, but it's because we need to hear it. We are so damn hard on ourselves.
We have such high expectations of ourselves. But I just wanna give you a huge permission slip to take your foot off the gas, Know that you've done enough. Know that your self worth is not on the line between here and January, and that you've done a pretty fucking good job this year. I am taking my own advice and doing the bare minimum. I'm meeting myself where I'm at, which can be really hard and try not to judge myself. And I'm taking the pressure off myself to bloom, and it is really helping. So that is my food for thought for you today. And just a friendly reminder that doors are still open for my group coaching program, One Woman Band Club.
It is a fabulous way of seriously getting shit done and doing it in a really compassionate way, making a whole bunch of new friends along the way. Spots are over halfway filled. So if you've been meaning to check it out or if you've been meaning to join, I recommend doing that soon. And you can find out more by going to the rebelrouses.com/1womanband. And if you're intrigued but not quite sure or you're on the fence, I'd love to have a chat. And you can book a free thirty minute discovery call via the link in the show notes or scrolling down to the bottom of the FAQs on the sales page. Here's to intentionally deciding not to bloom. Here's to taking the pressure off, and here's to us exactly as we are.
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